Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Wrinkles


By Sarah Van Hook © 2012

Looking at your face in the mirror—your aging, changing face—can be a dangerous activity. It can stir up feelings of insecurity and self-consciousness. Yet this morning as I gazed at the crow’s feet debuting around my eyes, I felt proud. With my thirty-first birthday around the corner, the feelings of “I’m getting older!” are only natural. But these wrinkles are not traitors to my age. They are boasters to my life.
 
My facial wrinkles, displayed for all the world to see, show the tears I’ve shed, the laughter I’ve spread, the pain I’ve suffered, the stress I’ve survived, the life I’ve shared. A life full of sorrows and successes, each one a contributor in its own right to the person I’ve become; the person who, despite the hardships, has become better with age. My wrinkles show those younger than I that I’m experienced. They show those older than I that I’m no longer an ignorant youth. They show my contemporaries that I’m their equal. Most importantly, my wrinkles show the world that I have lived!

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Sarah Van Hook is a non-traditional student attending school in Arkansas. She will graduate in December with a BA in Psychology and a minor in Sociology. She will be going on to earn a master's degree in Social Work. She can be contacted by email at gsezine [at] gloryandstrength.com

"What about him?"


By Kristi Bothur © 2012
Peter turned and saw that the disciple whom Jesus loved was following them. (This was the one who had leaned back against Jesus at the supper and had said, “Lord, who is going to betray you?”) When Peter saw him, he asked, “Lord, what about him?” John 21:20-21
When I was still teaching, discipline in the classroom was one of the hardest parts of the job, mostly because I wanted to be completely fair. I didn't want to blame one student for something that another one contributed to. Writing up only one student in a two-person conflict inevitably would bring a wail of protest, "What about him?"
To tell you the truth, I've wailed the same thing to God plenty of times. When I was single and longing to be married, I would look at friends celebrating their anniversaries and wonder, When is it my turn? What about her – you gave her a husband. Why not me?